II. Cor. 5:14-15 Whatever we do, it is because Christ’s love controls us. Since we believe that Christ died for everyone, we also believe that we have all died to the old life we used to live. He died for everyone so that those who receive his new life no longer live to please themselves. Instead, they will live to please Christ, who died and was raised for them. NLT
Do you do whatever you do out of your love for Christ? Does His love control you to the point where you treat others as Christ would treat them? It is something to think about. One of our greatest challenges as children of God is to act in a Christ-like way toward each other, even when we are not treated in a loving way. If Christ’s love controls us we will be compelled by His love to treat others with an unconditional and sacrificing heart.
Jesus died for everyone. Regardless of how awful a person may be, Jesus loves them with all His heart and died for them. He does not want anyone to die in their sins and, neither should we. Regardless of how badly we may be treated by someone, we should always long for their salvation. Our prayers should be for their soul’s rightness before God, not our revenge. And, it is not our place to sit in judgment over anyone, only the Lord can do that. We may note the wrong done, but let the Lord handle any judging that may need to be done. Pray for the salvation of those who do wrong and leave it at that.
We may judge the actions of others and hold them accountable for their actions, but that is as far as we dare go. Only God is able to judge the heart and condemn someone to hell.
We have died to the old life we once lived if Jesus is in our hearts. There is no part of our old life that we should hang on to or that should characterize who we are when we become children of God. Jesus changes our character and our desires. We no longer live to please ourselves, we live to please God. Period. If you are still trying to please yourself, you are not pleasing God. If you are more concerned about who others think you are than who God thinks you are, you are not pleasing God.
In Christ, we have new identities. We are not our own, we are His. Pleasing God should be the primary motivation of our lives, always